The Stitches of Life: "The Wishing Thread" by Lisa Van Allen

In February & March I spent three concurrent weeks in Helena, MT for training for my new job.  To say it was difficult is an understatement.  I learned a lot of new information and was exhausted at the end of every day and pretty much lived the hermit life in my hotel room.  However, one of the afternoons I ventured to a local used book store in the historical district of Helena.  It was a bit higher priced than I'm used to, but I still found a couple of fantastic books to add to my collection.  The first book was "The Wishing Thread" by Lisa Van Allen.  The plot intrigued me, and at the time, I was ready for a book that mixed magic with happy.  I learned while reading this book that sometimes the way our lives are stitched together is completely out of our control....hello, most of the time. Who are we kidding here?

The book takes place in Tarrytown, New York.  The main characters are the Van Ripper sisters named Bitty, Audrey and Meggie.  They have been blessed with the ability to weave magic spells into pieces of clothing they knit.  The magic has been present for generations and the book opens with the matriarch Aunt Mariah passing away.  Aunt Mariah has been the keeper of the magic knitting needles and the family's yarn store called The Stichery, all while raising her nieces.  Aubrey is the only sister who has remained in Tarrytown as an adult as well as kept with the tradition of magic and knitting. The other two sisters reluctantly find their way back to Tarrytown to pay their last respects to Aunt Mariah and the crazy begins.  We soon find out that these sisters are all very different from each other and they kind of resent their heritage and magical powers.

One of the things I really loved about this book, was the rebuilding of friendships among the sisters. Bitty has come to visit with her children and neglects to tell her sisters that she's also left her husband and their stay is a to-be-determined gig.  She's emotional and tired and trying to navigate her next steps in life while her daughter is starting to catch on that magic lives in this family.  She slowly opens up to Aubrey about her marital problems and eventually decides that it's in her family's best interest for her to stay in Tarrytown.  Meggie is all over the place and knows she should stay with her sisters to help settle the estate, but doesn't want to face her past either.  She reconnects with one of her friends from childhood and together they rekindle their friendship and mend their own broken pieces.

The second thing I liked about this book was it's beachy-read, happy nature.  Sometimes I just need to be able to get lost in a book and this definitely fits the bill.  I enjoyed knowing that when I picked up this book that it wouldn't leave me feeling down or drained emotionally.  While I was reading this book, I was still in a lot of transition in my personal life with changes continuing to be thrown at me from all directions.  This book was a nice escape from the adulting that forced me to have all the feels when I was just too tired to deal.

The end of this book was really sweet and had an ending that added to the pleasantries of reading it. It wasn't Hallmark-movie-cheesy, but it definitely warmed my heart and reminded me that there is always a bit of magic in our own lives, if we will look for it.  The plot of this book takes the reader through an interesting conflict and ultimately, the town comes together with the sisters to stand up for this magical place that has blessed so many lives.  I definitely think that can apply to real life  Sometimes, we just need to know that we have those people in our community and family who will stand behind us even when we might be a little bit different and/or crazy.

My recommended reading group would be age 12 and above.  It really is a great PG read that would appeal to multiple audiences because of the magic, family unity and knitting.

The moral of the story: Life has a way of changing courses and knitting new plot lines for us. It's our job to make the best of it and turn to those who know us best and will always be there when we need them.

Happy reading, my amazing, geeky lovelies!
-R

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Embracing the Unexpected: "A Week in Winter" by Maeve Binchy

A few months ago I discovered the fantastic writing of Maeve Binchy.  At the time I had no idea that she was a well-known and beloved author, but I quickly figured it out as I read her first book, "Light a Penny Candle." After I finished that book, I went on an Amazon Wish List spree to find more of her books that I would enjoy reading.  One of those books was "A Week in Winter." As I expected, the plot line was completely different than "Light a Penny Candle," but it was still a very enjoyable book to read. It's also safe to say that the book had some unexpected elements that I definitely had to embrace, but that was also the whole point of the book.

"A Week in Winter" was the last book that Maeve Binchy wrote before she passed away.  The book was written for and dedicated to her husband, Gordon.  She wanted to share a book about love and the bond that it has between family, friends and sometimes complete strangers.

The main characters in the book are Chicky Starr, Rigger and Orla.  Together they take on the task of refurbishing an old Inn called Stone House on the coast of Ireland.  Stone House has rich history that Chicky doesn't want to be lost and the choice to move back to her home village is something she feels is necessary.  She also feels that preserving Stone House will be a liberating opportunity for her and to show her family she can make more of her life without them.  Together Chicky, Rigger and Orla decide that they will open Stone House for a week at a time during the winter when tourists may not generally come; thus providing a quiet retreat for people in need.

In previous blog posts, I've mentioned my favorite writing style is alternating point-of-view (POV) and I didn't realize this book was written in that style. In addition to this fact, I didn't realize that each chapter was describing the lives of each of the people who would be visiting Stone House for its inaugural event.  I have to confess this was confusing to me and my brain automatically expected at some point a dominant main character's POV would be presented again and the people's individual stories would tie back to the main character.  That was not the case and it was disappointing for me.  I can't remotely say the writing was poor because, hello, it's Maeve Binchy, but for me it was different because of preconceived expectations.  In a way, the book flowed more like a collection of short stories rather than a full-length novel.  The reader will definitely be able to connect the dots on how they will all interact at Stone House, but it's something that the author didn't really connect on paper for the ending.

On a positive note, the stories of the people who were coming to visit Stone House were all so amazing.  In true Maeve Binchy style she created characters with so much depth, pain and joy.  This was one thing that I really enjoyed about "Light a Penny Candle" because I could literally feel the emotion of her characters and it kept me reading, even when the plot was heavy.  That is a true art form in my opinion and the author definitely portrayed this exceptional quality in this book.  Each of the characters had a common struggle which was the unexpected events and paths of life. Can't we all relate to this sentiment? I know I can.  Each of the characters coming to visit Stone House had felt great failure in some form and made the decision to get away and figure it all out. They each embraced the unexpected in their own way and ended up together in this beautiful place where their similarities were shared more than their differences.  I loved this aspect and found myself dreaming about a life in which I could pack up for a week and retreat to a bed and breakfast by the sea with people who understood what failure and heartache felt like.  Hello, stress floating away.

Overall, I thought this book was a positive read with great writing and incredible characters. I don't know that I would choose to read it again, but only because the style wasn't my favorite. I think we can all agree that reading books about those who have overcome hardship can be very inspiring and motivating to continue our own good fight.

My recommended reading group would be age 16 and above.  It's a PG-13 read with adult relationship themes that might not be understood by readers under the age of 16. Nothing real crazy with sex or alcohol either.

The moral of the story: Life is always going to have days when we are hit with the unexpected or something happens completely the opposite of our expectation. However, that doesn't mean we should stop and close the book. Keep going. Always keep going.

Happy reading, my amazing, geeky lovelies!
-R

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Equal Temper of Heroic Hearts: "Rare Objects" by Kathleen Tessaro

Recently, I've had a number of women share with me about their struggles with mental health. This is a fairly common event since I am very open about my own struggles with depression. While some of these women have far more harrowing challenges than I do, the common denominator is always this -- some days we feel really sad, other days we are very happy and some days we are just straight-up crazy. Each time the subject of mental health comes up, it is really important to me to verbally recognize their struggles as something they live and breathe just as much as I do, that they are very different from mine, but also find our common ground. And you know what? Most of the time the common ground is this: it is so damn hard to deal at times, but we keep doing it.  "Rare Objects" by Kathleen Tessaro was a book that exemplified what I just described above. It was a moving story about mental health and what may seem to be heroic is likely all a ploy to just continue to deal.

This book was another book I purchased used from my Amazon Wish List to give some variety to my reading while I was at training for my day job.  Previously, I had read "The Perfume Collector" by Kathleen Tessaro and REALLY enjoyed it.  This book definitely showcased her writing style once again and I read the entire book in the course of four days.

The setting for the story is 1932 Boston.  There are two main characters in this book.  The first is Maeve Fanning, an Irish immigrant with a family who is barely making due and still trying to adjust to being in America. Maeve struggles with making the best choices and eventually finds herself in a mental institution. The second main character is Diana van der Laar, a high-society debutante whose family has excessively high expectations for her and she wants none of it.  She is also a bit too manic for high society and also finds herself in a mental institution.  Both of these women come from polar worlds, but one day find themselves interacting for a brief moment in the common area of the same mental institution.  Maeve is intrigued by Diana and, at the time, doesn't realize the feelings are mutual and Diana may not be as manic as the staff has portrayed her to be. Diana is discharged shortly after this exchange and Maeve assumes that life will just move on and the meeting was pure coincidence.

Following Maeve's discharge from the institution, she finds a job as a store clerk and assistant in a high-end antiques shop. She is a high-spirited woman and makes her way in to a career that includes interacting with many of Boston's high society residents.  One day a woman comes in to the shop and as they begin to visit they realize that they know each other, their common link is the mental institution and this woman is Diana van der Laar.  Both know that openly sharing their common link would negatively affect both their reputations so they start to meet for dinner and drinks after Maeve is off work and become fast friends. The friendship that unfolds is one of chaos and dysfunction, but also strength that comes from sharing the fear of ridicule for being imperfectly crazy.

There were a couple of passages that really resonated with me, especailly because I can relate quite significantly in the mental health realm.  In a conversation between Maeve and Diana, Diana shares with Maeve that she has purchased an apartment that will be a safe haven for both of them whenver they need it.  Both of them have keys and the rules are that they can literally come there any time they need to escape.

Diana says to Maeve, "I need a place to breathe.  You're not the only one who lives in a fishbowl.  I thought you'd understand." Maeve replies (referencing Diana's primary home aka mansion), "I do, it's just, well, it's so beautiful. Filled with so many lovely things." Diana's reply is what really struck me because I've felt it many times.  She said, "is it? Well, they're only things.  Anyway, I like secrets. What people don't know can't be interfered with." Bingo!  This is SO true.  There have been so many times in my own life when I thought it is just easier for me to deal with this on my own vs. freaking someone out or overwhelming them because they suddenly get to be aware of my imperfections. Is that necessarily the healthiest way to handle it? Probably not, but it's happened.

The next quote was shared with Maeve by her employer.  He said to her, "sometimes, my dear, being broken is the most interesting thing that can happen." {insert intended pause to reflect} How many of you have felt like your broken pieces were the ones that needed to be ignored or hidden under the rug? I have many times. This quote was powerful to me when I was reading the book.  I needed the reminder at the very moment I was reading it.  I was in a sea of transitions of life and a new job that was super overwhelming at the time.  I felt like my broken pieces were holding me back, but really they were the reason why I was in this new place and it was a good thing!

The final passage was what inspired the title of this blog post.  Maeve's employer becomes someone she confides in and shares a lot of her past with and how it has affected her present.  At one point she finds a copy of Alfred Lord Tennyson's poem, "Ulysses" where the employer has written some notes. The section with the notes says,

How dull it is to pause, to make an end,

To rust unburnished, not to shine in use!

As tho' to breathe were life!...

... that which we are, we are:

One equal temper of heroic hearts,

Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will

To strive, to seek, to find and not to yield.

This poem became a mantra for Maeve and she did her best to figure out what her purpose in life was. Simultaneously within the plot, Diana is doing the same and the reader discovers how their polar upbringings and social classes didn't stop either from having to make really difficult decisions and feel some deep pain and sorrow.  I love, love, loved the sentence, "One equal temper of heroic hearts, made weak by time and fate, but strong in will." This is life, my friends! We are equal because we have hearts, but what makes us different is the events over time that have caused us to find strength to keep going.  Did Maeve deal in the same manner as Diana? Nope.  Were there common themes? Yes, but it was not exactly the same. This is very important to remember in our own lives.  How I deal will never look the same as how you deal. But, that does not mean we can help each other to strive, seek, find and not yield.  

My recommended reading group would be age 16 and above.  It's a PG-13 read with strong mental health themes, relationship elements including sex and overall themes that may be too much to process for the younger audience.

The moral of the story: Finding our common link may mean recognizing our broken pieces, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't do it.  Rise to the occasion and admit you're imperfect, they're imperfect and it's OK.

Happy reading, my amazing, geeky lovelies!
-R

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In Safety She Sings: "The Nightingale" by Kristin Hannah

According to Welsh author Ken Follett, "World War II is the greatest drama in human history, the biggest war ever and a true battle of good and evil. I imagine writers will continue to get stories from it, and readers will continue to love them, for many more years." This statement could not have described my feelings about "The Nightingale" by Kristin Hannah any better.  It was, without a doubt, one of the most powerful WWII books I've read in a really long time and had me entranced for days after I finished reading it.

When "The Nightingale" was released, my SLC bestie, Luci read it and promptly recommended it to me. At the time I wasn't reading as much so it went on my Amazon Wish List in hopes that someone would buy it as a gift.  For almost 3 years it sat on my wish list waiting, waiting, waiting. Then I walked in to our local used book store and it was on the shelf.  I snatched it up and added it to the reading list for April's blog posts.  Little did I know how much of an impact it would have on me.  And as a bonus, it has a STUNNING cover.  Old news that I'm a sucker for a stellar cover.

The plot is set in the countryside of France as well as Paris in 1939. At the beginning of the book we are introduced to two sisters, Vianne and Isabelle, who are the quintessential definition of bi-polar in their views of the war. Vianne, the older sister, is married and sends her husband off to the front lines fairly early on in the book.  Isabelle is a fierce fighter against the Hitler regime and she quickly realizes that living with her sister for any period of time is not in her best interest, but also goes against her beliefs in the resistance efforts. While Vianne is forced to entertain a Nazi soldier who is living in her home, Isabelle makes her way to the front lines of the resistance, and begins her work as the Nightingale, a wanted spy and smuggler of Jews and ally soldiers.  One of the code phrases for when Isabelle has safely delivered her group of refugees is "The Nightingale sings." They also say, "in safety she sings" which is why I gave this post that title. The imagery used by the author to describe Isabelle's missions are spellbinding.  There were a few times I felt like I was in the forest with her and the group while they were trying to sneak across the border to neutral territory.

This book, much like "Girl in the Blue Coat" brought a very realistic perspective to the master manipulation that the Nazi soldiers used to convince people of their ways.  Vianne lives in constant fear and her actions definitely show it. She is also easily persuaded and finds herself questioning her moral compass because she so desperately misses her husband and the first Nazi soldier living in her home fills some dangerously-present emotional gaps. It's a tangled web she weaves and eventually there are some hard life lessons that she must learn because of it.

This is the first fiction book in awhile that I pulled a bunch of quotes from to use in a blog post. I've tried to stay away from the more philosophical posts because that was more my writing style on my previous blog.  However, this book broke that rule on numerous occasions and the quotes were just too powerful not to share with my readers.  I think the author did an amazing job at writing material that so eloquently applied to modern day while simultaneously describing a very dark piece of world history.  Here are a few of the quotes that really spoke to me.

“We are all fragile. It’s the thing we learn in war”

"Don’t think about who they are. Think about who you are and what sacrifices you can live with and what will break you.”

“I think, as this war goes on, we will all have to look more deeply. These questions are not about them, but about us.”

“How can I possibly sleep at a time like this?” He sighed. “You will learn that a lot of things are possible.”

“In love we find out who we want to be; in war we find out who we are”

I debated if I would put the quotes in context for my readers, but I think I'm leaving them written as is and hope that will encourage you to read the book! As an American and the granddaughter of a man who fought in the second World War, I am so grateful for the sacrifices made by MANY to bring down a regime of people who thought genocide was acceptable.  I'm also grateful for the many men and women who are currently defending my freedom and who continue to face the questions listed above. War has changed my generation thanks to the tragic events of 9.11.2001 and we must never forget how important our freedom is and what it takes to defend it.

My recommended reading group would be age 16 and above.  It's a definite PG-13 read with relationship elements, including sex and some really heavy thematic elements surrounding the Nazis and the brutality of World War II.

The Moral of the Story: Defending your honor can be dangerous and painful, but ultimately the end goal is bringing safety to those who may not have the ability to sing because their world has been torn to shreds by the enemy.

Happy reading, my amazing, geeky lovelies!
-R

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When Art Echoes Life: "The Winter Sea" by Susanna Kearsley

A long time ago I decided that tall, dark, handsome and beardy was my idea of the dream man. There may have also been a non-fictional man who fit this description (minus the tall part), but he has gratefully moved on and is no longer included in my story. However, I'm still instantly giddy when I see a solid, rugged, beardy man on TV (Poldark.....sigh), on social media or in person (mmmm, the best!).  When my awesome friend, Tana, recommended The Winter Sea by Susana Kearsley, she only told me it was one of the best books she'd ever, ever read. She conveniently or legitimately (she has 15 children who call her mom, almost 16....great story for another day) forgot to tell me that this story not only included one beardy Scotsman with dark hair, but had TWO who were both completely dreamy. To say this book was happiness is just too bland.  It was down right magical. So, let's talk about the magic of art echoing life in The Winter Sea. 

If you're a frequent reader of my blog you know that I did a mystery theme in March. Unbeknownst to me I chose two books in a row with VERY heavy plot lines (and a close family friend passed away while reading book #2) so when I finished the last book, I needed some solid happiness and L-O-V-E. None of my books in the cozy book nook really fit this bill, so I decided to find a few books on my Amazon Wish List that I'd been dying to read.  I purchased them all used and The Winter Sea was the first one that arrived in the mail so it was read first.

The main character in the book is an author named Carrie McClelland.  Carrie has recently started writing a new novel that is set along the coast of Scotland near the Slains Castle, an abandoned castle with a rich history.  In an effort to fully immerse herself in the surroundings of her fictional story, she decides to rent a cottage by the sea to write.  It seems simple at first, but quickly unfolds in to a little more of a complicated, yet beautiful scene.  When she arrives to the quaint village she starts to realize that her purpose is deeper than meets the eye.  She feels a very strong pull to the history of Slains Castle and the historical events that occurred surrounding the Jacobites invading Scotland in the early 18th century.

Now, before I go any further I have to share the secondary reason why I could NOT put this book down. It was written in my favorite writing style.....wait for it......alternating POV (point of view). Be still my heart; it is honestly my favorite.  I've talked about it in other reviews, but it really makes my brain happy and engaged to have to keep track of the two plot lines and simultaneously figure out why and how they are connected.  Not only do we have alternating POV that is just delicious, but we also have two beautiful love stories in each of these plot lines that run parallel in so many ways. It is spectacular.

The present day plot line quickly introduces the reader to the beardy Scotsman who Carrie falls in love with quite quickly.  The details surrounding this developing relationship are what kept me reading. Both Carrie and Graham (beardy, handsome Scotsman) hold back a little because her stay in the village is temporary.  As a result, their first kiss doesn't come until page 100 (*spoiler alert*). Sneaky, sneaky author for doing that to me because once that kissaroo happened, I was HOOOOKED until page 527. It was very enjoyable and refreshing to travel along with Carrie and Graham in their adventures, both in doing research for her book, but also getting to know each other personally.  Graham was my kind of man: simple, respectful, smart ... and beardy.  He is connected to some other characters in the book, but I'm not playing all my cards on that one. You'll just have to read it and find out more.

The flashback plot line introduces the reader to Sophia and John Moray, a couple in the early 18th century who secretly get married and have a child before Moray is sent back to sea.  This plot line is presented through visions that Carrie has and she starts to recognize their distinct parallel to her own life.  The other cool part about this book is the characters that Carrie is writing about are not only non-fiction characters, but they are her ancestors. I was giddy about the family history aspect. I come from a family who values family history very much and this just added an extra layer of emotional attachment to the story for me.  Carrie feels a deep sense of pride and devotion to Sophia and the need to share her story because they are family.  She also feels like her visions are stronger and more vivid because she is bringing her ancestor's story to life.  Truly delightful.

Overall this book was a cool glass of lemonade on a hot day.  It was a long book for me: 527 pages, but I didn't feel it.  The writing is outstanding and the character development is perfection.  Not going to lie, I shouted, sighed and got all sorts of swoony many times throughout this book.  However, there were some elements that tugged at my heart strings as well.  I've had a number of friends read it and their overall consensus was it being in their Top Ten. I can say that as well.  For sure.

My recommended reading group would be age 16 and above.  It's a PG-13 read with brief pre-marital sex and some mild violence in the flashback plot line.

The moral of the story: When life hands you lemons, make lemonade and read a book about a handsome Scotsman. It will surely bring you sunshine.

Happy reading, my amazing, geeky lovelies!
-R

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